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Gay, Lesbian, bi relationships are okay!!

September 20, 2009
By ~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me


I don't understand why most people in the world don't like people of the same sex to be in a relationship. I'm bisexual myself and people come up to me and start critizing me because i am, but they dont understand that I'm special in my own way just like other ppl, no matter who they are.

Where I live the main population is gay, lesbian and bi people. In front of my school there are even people writing signs saying "God hates America and Fags are not welcomed here!" I am getting so sick of it! This is making us not want to come out and actually be us.

The government has no right to make laws saying that gays can not be married. God and government does not mix people! Get it straight! Some of yur friends might actually be gay, lesbian or bi, and would u not be there friend because of it? If you would, then you are messed up and not worthy of their friendship.



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on Mar. 29 2012 at 3:35 pm
dancegirl13 BRONZE, Roslyn, Washington
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What you said baffles and completely disgusts me.

on Mar. 29 2012 at 3:33 pm
dancegirl13 BRONZE, Roslyn, Washington
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I don't mean to offend religious people at all by this, but what does it matter if God's happy? Why do we need to look to him to know what is right? Humans are not born bad. We have intelligent brains and loving souls and we can tell if something that we are doing is going to hurt someone else. Thus, us ourselves know what is 'right' and what is 'wrong' most of the time. This is why homosexuality, even from a religious standpoint, can't be compared to rape or killing. Rape and murder are acts that harm someone else unjustly. Homosexuality is a feeling that you have inside of yourself. Now, I believe strongly in evolution, not that God made us. But if God made us, that would mean that he made those feelings inside of us. So that would mean that God made some people gay. So, from a religious or unreligious standpoint, how is it wrong for people to be gay, lesbian, bisexual, or whatever the heck else is right for them as long as they are happy and they aren't hurting others?

on Mar. 29 2012 at 3:14 pm
dancegirl13 BRONZE, Roslyn, Washington
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I agree. The people who are judging and hating homosexual people are the ones that are messing up.

on Mar. 20 2012 at 2:30 pm
ilovedarryl BRONZE, Indianapolis Indiana, Indiana
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go big or go home

Hi my name is sarah and i'm bi and i've been bullied about it. I think that people who say i'm gay is right is my fault that i'm bi?

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:58 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

my opion is that if you are really determined to be christian you will do that with out listing to other people if you love jesus you love jesus

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:55 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

i totally agree that is a great way to put it thank  you

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:53 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

the thing is if ut he didnt judgeyou read the bible jesus didnt judge he ate at tables with sinners he loved sinners like he loved christians he didnt agree with what they were doing judge

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:50 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

this comment says everything iv been trying ot get out

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:48 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

my personal opinion is that i dont agree with gays and lesbos but i can get along thats what i was taught hate the sin love the sinner

on Mar. 19 2012 at 8:43 am
sweetgirl70 BRONZE, Pelzer, South Carolina
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a women is like a rose if u love her right she will bloom

just saying all christians are not like they are quit a lot of them i think that being gay ar bisexual is wrong but i do not judge people have there reasons

on Mar. 12 2012 at 8:57 am
DarkIsThyThought BRONZE, Shishpipkabibble, Pennsylvania
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I think I know enough of hate- to say that for destruction ice- is also great- and would suffice.

You shouldn't not hang out with someone becuase they are gay! It is not disease! I know plenty of bisexuals and they are totally cool. You are just like the hateful professed christians I was talking about!

on Mar. 12 2012 at 8:53 am
DarkIsThyThought BRONZE, Shishpipkabibble, Pennsylvania
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I think I know enough of hate- to say that for destruction ice- is also great- and would suffice.

I was raised with a christian background and went to church two or three times a week. I recently become an athiest due to the awful and hateful judgement radiating off of most professed christians. I totally stand up for different sexual orientations and transgenders. You are you, and you shouldn't have to be attacked for it. Most christians are harsher than nonbelievers! It says in the bible that you shouldn't judge people.

on Mar. 9 2012 at 12:31 pm
SecrecyGirl17 GOLD, La Monte, Missouri
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"Life is a storm, so bring your umbrella."

agreed! that's why pulling the religiou card is so hipocritical, it contridicts itself on its on.. on one page it says not to judge and to love everyone and how god forgives but then late it says this and that about homosexual.. its just confusing and not right

on Mar. 9 2012 at 12:28 pm
SecrecyGirl17 GOLD, La Monte, Missouri
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"Life is a storm, so bring your umbrella."

i also don't care who people choose to date or marry it is their life, who am i to judge. i also know how you feel about the religion thing, i' have grown up having to go to church but the past couple years i have been questioning things and forming my own oppinions, i wouldn't go as far as to say i'm athiest but i thing religious people tend to be the most hipocritical and judgemental

on Mar. 3 2012 at 4:48 pm
ashlyn939 PLATINUM, Lynchburg, Virginia
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"Love means holding on to someone just as hard as you can because if you don't, one blink and they might disappear... forever." -Ellen Hopkins, Impulse

this is so true

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on Mar. 3 2012 at 11:51 am
akitos BRONZE, Romulus, Michigan
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the heart is a treacherous thing it can be easily broken

heck what i say is that if u've lovesd some one and u know them for some time u should go out with them. doesnt matter what background u are

on Mar. 2 2012 at 9:28 pm
parkour.VaTech BRONZE, Blacksburg, Virginia
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"Live life on the edge, because if you don't you're taking up to much space."

I really don't give if people are LGBT. I'm straight but I am also atheist because of how hateful religon is. I don't care who people want to love as long as they are good people.

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on Mar. 2 2012 at 4:02 pm
Priscilla33, Garland, Texas
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&ldquo;You&#039;ve gotta dance like there&#039;s nobody watching, <br /> Love like you&#039;ll never be hurt, <br /> Sing like there&#039;s nobody listening, <br /> And live like it&#039;s heaven on earth.&rdquo; <br /> -William W. Purkey-

I am bisexsual as well and i so agree with you! my girl friend get scared sometimes that someone else might harm us because we are who we are but i think its time we stand up for ourselfs.... Goverment and politics and judgemental people can BACK OFF!!!!

ItzJustMi GOLD said...
on Feb. 29 2012 at 1:47 pm
ItzJustMi GOLD, Rockwell, North Carolina
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&quot;Life is like a game you have to be willing to play in order to win.&quot;

I agree with every word you said. I am also Bisexual and I feel that everyone is unique in their own way,a nd its not fair that we can't even go to school and not be critize because of our sexual oriintation. I agree what if someone's friend was gay or bisexual and you find out and you stoped being their friend. That would be childish and down right degrading.

on Feb. 25 2012 at 8:43 am
Midnight_Hum SILVER, Hearne, Texas
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@Sacrifice. It is important to understand that the problem here is not se.xuality, or how fluid it is, but rather human nature, and how morality is. After reading your reply, I will assume that you believe in God. I will also assume that you believe in a set moral code (though it is arguably different than mine). In your example, you said, “For instance, I can claim I'm stra.ight, and only ever engage in se.xual activities with men, but still find women attractive. Even if I never desire a relationship with a person of the same se.x, many would still argue that I am on some level bi-se.xual, or perhaps "bi-curious".” The problem here is not the se.xuality that you identify with but rather, your character as a human being. We all have the choice to be straight or g.ay, just as much as we have the choice to do right or wrong, and saying that se.xuality is fluid is an excuse for who we really are as humans. And really, your vague example can apply to just about anything. Like, “For instance, I can claim I'm a Chr.istian, and only ever engage in Chri.stian activities, but sometimes doubt my faith. Even if I never desire to believe that there isn't a God, many would still argue that I am on some level athe.istic, or perhaps “semi-ag.nostic”. Does this mean spirituality is fluid? Or rather, does it simply show that I am human, and that I am not perfect and that I do not know anything. It comes down not to “why you believe what you believe” but rather “what you want to believe”.

As for your other example, let's set it up as a logic problem and assume your logic is correct. You could say, “If being ga.y makes me happy and God is happy when I am happy, then being ga.y makes God happy (and is therefore good, I think we both would agree that there is nothing wrong with a 'happy' God). So this problem is a mixture of an “And” and “If then” statement, and the logic appears to be good. Like I said, I believe that making God happy is good. Nothing wrong with that. Our difference lies with what makes God happy. However, your logic (unless you have some very twisted beliefs) is VERY faulty. Let me show you an example, “If kil.ling and ra.ping people makes me happy and God is happy when I am happy, then me kil.ling and ra.ping people makes God happy.” Same logic, same answer. So if you really believe what you said before (If being g.ay...God happy) then by your own logic you have to believe that WHATEVER makes you (or anyone) happy makes God happy. And that, my friend, is faulty reasoning.

It all goes back to humans being inherently bad. That we, ourselves can never ultimately make God happy. Because He is perfect and we are much, much less than perfect. Now, if you don't believe in a God then it is a different story. But, after reading your response, I am assuming that you do.

And...I'm not even going to bother to go in depth on your statement that “ho.mose.xuality has been observed in 1500 species”. This is complete absurdism. Male to male dominance in another species is not attraction to the same s.ex. And it is going to take more definitive proof then cases of two male penguins 'living' together or two male octopuses mating to say that something ridiculous like, “Obviously gorilla se.xuality is fluid because we observed two males living with each other.” You cannot equate a lifestyle to an animal any more than you can say that animals are mur.derers, adu.lterers, liers, thieves, procrastinators, or anything else. Animals, unlike humans, do not have the mental capacity, spiritual compass, or moral awareness to make such decisions. Animals are animals and humans are human. This also brings to mind nonsensical questions such as, “If a penguin is g.ay, and being ga.y makes him happy then is God happy?” Absurd.